Advice for sex after marriage?

hi,





I am getting married soon. I am curious about first sex. I wanna be 100% safe from getting her pregnant. what is the best way to prevent it? using a condom?


If she is in her safe days to have sex, then should we go ahead without condom?Advice for sex after marriage?
To be safe you both need to use birth control. Never have sex or even foreplay if you don't want a pregnancy, sperm can enter the virgina without you having penetration so don't take any chances. The only time you might be safe not using birth control is when she has her period however, it can be very painful and most women and some men don't want to have sex during menstruation.


Once she gets pregnant you can't take it back so protect yourselves.Advice for sex after marriage?
make sure she gets on birth control if u dont want to use a condom...or just for the 1st night have her take plan b the next day (make sure this only happens 1 time)
';Safe Days';? Do you know what they call people that use the rhythm method for birth control? They are called Parents.





If she is not on birth control, then a condom is the way to go. Make sure that you spice it up a bit and get a variety of types until you find the ones that work best for the both of you.
Unless she is on birth control, you need to wear a condom if you don't want kids for awhile.
Safe days don't always work honey.





Stick with the condoms or maybe she could go on the pill.





Better safe than sorry.





Have a happy life together and children when you want them and not before.





Really nice to see some people are so responsible, such a pleasant change.
she should begin taking some form of birth control before you get married. if she doesn't, then look into spermicides (although when used alone, the effectiveness is not very good.) there is always the rhythm method (withdrawal/pull-out). condoms are not really fun in marriage when you don't have to worry about contracting or giving STDs. talk to your future wife, find out if she is on birth control. if she is, then your job will be easy. if she's not, then you need to sit down and have a talk about what you want your wedding night to be like. the two of you are the only ones that can answer that question. good luck!
use a condom
Congratulations.





Sex in a marriage is a must.But you should have very good control over your emotions.Take time and her acceptance then proceed for the act.





Yes taking the precaution is a good idea but you see when it comes to sex it is very difficult to comment as to when what will happen depending upon the mind set of the couple.





Yes you can make love without any condom if your Girl friend has take the full precaution or she is correct with her dates of her periods.





As they say 5 days before and 5 days after periods it is safe to have sex without any precaution .


Wishing you a very Happy married and active sex life with your wife.
Before you get married, either go to your doctor and discuss this, or go to Planned Parenthood and ask about birth control devices, chemicals and techniques. If you aren't using any kind of real birth control, then you are playing ';pregnancy roulette.';
She can always use the pill if you guys are not ready to have a baby.
There's lots of different types of birth control available these days. If you don't want kids right away, then you need to use some form of birth control. Ask her to talk to her doctor (gyn) about it.
If you don't want to get her pregnant...use a condom. Every time. There are also contraceptive foams and jellies available to use along with condoms. And there's always the pill. Check with Planned Parenthood or your local clinic.
Protect the life cycle. Don't create any children right now, as it disturbs the life cycle.
Well,





Maybe you all should get a test on when she is ovulating.. Then you will know when to use a condom..





Also, to prevent her from getting pregnant...





You all might want to look into her getting an IUD..





An IUD is a device that is inserted into her.. The prevents pregnancy 99%..





She can take it out when you all want to have a baby.





I works!





Look into it!