Asalama alyukum i am asking a question on concern with a muslim sister who is depressed about the situation she is. herself and a muslim brother got to know eachother in a halal manner with the intention of marriage, both have performed salat istikhara many times and have had very clear and positive signs of which they will marry, however the sister's parents are stuborn to the idea of her marrying this brother and are picking at the smallest of reasons as to why this can not happen.
i would appreciate it if i could have advice which i can pass on to her to help her out in her depressin time as i no longer know what to say, both are sure this is ment to be, as when asking guidance from allah there have been clear signs.Muslim sister asking for advice on marriage her parents disagree on?
They should both meet with both sets of parents and talk it out. If they are reasonable people and there is no clear reason why they shouldn't marry, then the girl's parents will relent.
If that doesn't work, they should just grow up, be adults and get married without her parents' permission. While it would be nice to have it, they don't need it if they are two consenting adults.
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They can state the reasons why they feel it is meant to be and what clear signs about that they have received.
What religious parent could disagree with that?Muslim sister asking for advice on marriage her parents disagree on?
Honor your father and mother. They are older and wiser than you. A marriage that begins without the parents is a bad marriage. She will not have her parents support if the marriage fails and she will be alone in her life without her parents there with her. And they will not be there if she disobeys them. God will provide a suitable husband that her parents will approve of.
according to Islamic laws...if she is an adult then she does not need her parents permission to get married...she can do it legaly in islamic court with two witnesses
peace, Salam, Shalom
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