Thursday, December 31, 2009

Advice for my brother in bad marriage?

My brother has been married for 15 years and has 2 kids. Both him and his wife work, but he works his butt off at home too and she does nothing. He does all the cooking, laundry, cleaning, taking care of kids, etc. She is bipolar and refuses to get any treatment for it. Because of this she goes to bed at 9 pm and takes 3 hour naps on Saturdays, leaving him to do it all. Sex has been over for years. He truly wants to be divorced but can鈥檛 bear the thought of not being with his kids every day. My heart breaks for him!! He is torn up, constantly debating what to do. What would you tell him?Advice for my brother in bad marriage?
He should probably get a divorce and file for custody of the kids, sounds like she's unfit to take care of the kids anyways. Good Luck to him though!Advice for my brother in bad marriage?
I would tell him to keep a diary of his life from the time he wakes until bed, that will help him with full custody, bipolar is a mental disease which she may not be able to have full custody if she isn't able to care for them..I would tell him to start looking for a good divorce lawyer..that is no way for your brother and their children to be living..it isn't healthy for them. He seems like a great guy and deserves a wife.
if she cannot take care of herself I don't think she can care for 2 kids. he should seperate from her and file for custody of the children.
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