Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Advice for a happy marriage?

I am getting married in one week! What advice can you give me for having a happy marriage always?Advice for a happy marriage?
My family calls it the three c's: Communication.Compromise and Compassion. Accepting each other for who they are and as you grow. Realizing no one is perfect, no not even you. Calm down before you talk about something that really ticked you off. Once those words are out you cannot take them back. Read about relationships, keep the good stuff that makes sense and toss the crap. The most important thing is this, only marry someone you truly and deeply love and respect. When the love fades the respect is still there and can make the love grow again. When the respect takes an unexpected hit, love will help you heal. I have only been with the man I adore for eighteen years but some of this advice is very old indeed. My grandparents were married about 70 years and my husbands 75 plus. Amazing people and i wish i could remember all the advice they freely gave.





I wish you happiness and joy all of your wedded days!Advice for a happy marriage?
Respect your spouse as your equal partner and always place as much importance in their happiness as your own. All marriages go through phases, so stay with the mind set that you are willing to work on your relationship every day, not just when things are hard. Love each other and value the time you have together. Set common goals and work towards them together.
Remember there is no such thing as a perfect person or marriage. Marriage is a work in progress. Always work at it. Honesty, Loyalty, Love, patience, and respect and most of all Trust each other. Be each others everything and take your marriage seriously. I wish you good luck and remember communication is always the key.
Constant affection


Making the other person your highest priority


Being best friends


Sacrifice: The biggest areas of sacrifice are food and exercise. My wife of 20 years and I have eaten healthy and exercised so we can still drive each other wild


Great sex - we have a rule in our house - you cannot say ';no'; to your spouse's request for sex. You can at most put them off ONE day.And the next day you have to make good on your promise.
Ne each others BEST friend. Never hide info from the other except a surprise. retreat them as you would want them to treat you. Have spectate interest and some in common. Support each others personal girth, hobbies, celebrate each other's accomplishments...Get into counseling if you are at an impasse, or read articles on line and apply what pros tell you...Learn how to please one another sexually...take care of your Personal hygiene, YOUR Body health, weight, teeth. Stay committed to one another.
Always say ';I Love You'; even if you are fighting. Remember marriage is about compromise; as my priest said at our wedding the day that a husband and wife begin to keep score is the day the marriage begins to fail.
Treat your spouse, as you wish to be treated........With love, honesty, consideration, and respect. CONGRATULATIONS! 鈾モ櫏
Honesty, compromise, passion, love, and remember why you wanted to spend the rest of your lives together.
Hold hands every chance you get... even while watching tv or going to sleep.

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