Thursday, December 31, 2009

Since being married what is one true fact you have found about marriage that is a good piece of advice for?

other people???Since being married what is one true fact you have found about marriage that is a good piece of advice for?
That is takes both people to make a marriage work and you both have to be willing to work at it forever! Don't run at the first sign of a problem....work it out!Since being married what is one true fact you have found about marriage that is a good piece of advice for?
miss-communication can cause many problems....lol





that is one true fact i have learned. Everyone knows that communication is important and it sounds so easy but sometimes it can be difficult.





It's amazing to me how seemingly simple insignificant things have the ability to either cause problems in a relationship or create pure bliss in a relationship.
Sometimes you will get your way, sometimes you have to give.





The best piece I ever got was from my Mom....';No matter how much you love your kids, always make alone 'couple time' an important priority. You start out as a couple and will return to being a couple, don't let that get lost along the way';. Parents are celebrating 50 yrs, I'm married 24 pretty damn good years!
I've been happily married for nearly eight years. I have lots of advice!





1. Communicate, communicate, communicate!





2. NEVER insult your significant other, especially in anger.





3. Put your spouse before you at all times (provided they do the same).





4. Accept them for who they are. No one is perfect, and you are going to have to deal with their faults.





5. Most importantly of all: choose the right person to marry in the first place!!!! A lot of people would save themselves an expensive divorce if they used their heads more than their ';heart.'; Hearts lie.
When you fight always think before you speak no matter how mad you are. You can really hurt someone in a second and you will never have the chance to take it back.
Don't do it UNLESS u are 200% certain!! Who am I kidding, I wasn't certain an did it anyway but if I had that advice I would have thought twice about it and now wouldn't be considered divorced!!





But hey, I'm divorced and happier than ever :)
Marriage is not about who is right or wrong it is about compromising.
That communication and laughter are huge. When you respect yourself and love your own life then your spouse automatically is drawn to you.
You cannot change the other person. Start with you. Respect the others feelings and decisions. Support each other.





Use this in all respects.
Men become helpless once they become married. Funny how that happens.
Always have the doors of communication open, don't ever go to bed mad!
The value of marriage has decreased and the divorce rate has increased. So my advice is not to get married.
You can not have a good marriage with out absolute trust.
That you share a life and not rule someone life.
Admit your are wrong all the time...
Share what you have and that means food too.
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol Really.

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