Advice for a married friend toward marriage? Please help!?

My friend is in the military and he's been married for two years now. He's complaining cuz it's tough he's been deployed two times now and that he even loses anniversaries. I know that it's nothing of my business and that's the way are in the military but why is he telling me, I mean what do I know , o what can I say him.... I mean I'm no marriage counselor I don't know if he's telling that cuz he's having doubts of his marriage (this is his 2nd one) or what kind of advice he wants or perhaps he just wants to share his feelings toward that. Have you ever been in a situation like to a friend tells you things about there relationships.Advice for a married friend toward marriage? Please help!?
I really don't get what you are saying.Advice for a married friend toward marriage? Please help!?
he needs someone 2 talk to about it!deployment is very hard for both sides!encourage him to stay with his wife!because there is and was a reason he married her!marriage isnt easy forsure!it takes alot of work on both sides.give and take!
That can be taken either way. He is trying to reach out to a friend for support and/or advise. It is hard to say without you directly asking him.
G,day Janet,


Life in the military is great but these sought of thoughts can and will arise being a soldier. It may be wise to get him to chat to his Wife in regards to this , as another has posted he married her for a reason and I think that is just the reason why he should . Alot of soldiers will end up being single for the simple fact that it is hard on both parties when in the military, it is a great stress not knowing when and if your partener will come home. !! But he must talk to her in regards to everything he is feeling where his military life is concerned.