Thursday, December 31, 2009

I am falling for our marriage counselor.... Any advice?

My wife and I started going to therapy about 6 months ago. Since then things have been great. I also go see our counselor by myself. I'm pretty sure I have feelings for her, and she flirts with me all the time as well. I'm at a point a desicion must be made. I know what the right thing to do is...... Help!!I am falling for our marriage counselor.... Any advice?
have yourself committed to a psych ward. you're delusional and starting to create a fantasy world around your counselorI am falling for our marriage counselor.... Any advice?
I have heard of it happening but, more often I have heard of clients falling for the counselor much more often... because they are in an unhealthy relationship. They feel comfortable sharing feelings with someone who knows how to communicate effectively and have not had that connectedness with the opposite sex for awhile. I would really look closely at what you consider flirting. She would lose her job if she was. Do you really think she would risk it? You are the only one who knows for sure but, I would not want to get involved with anything like that.
she may or may not be flirting with you!


maybe this what you think she is doing!


if you love your wife!


you will disreguard the so-called flirts!


remember!


she is a professional!
Well if she( the counselor) develops a relationship out side of the business, which is counseling you and your wife she will lose her license................not that you would tell but your wife might


It is totally against the code of ethics for a councilor to have a relationship with a client
well tell her that u are interrested but u cant see her cause u are married now and tell her that u love your wife very much
Well, The counselor may not be flirting with you. She is supposed to be personable and friendly to keep things neutral and get you to talk. If things are great in your marriage now, I would suggest you stop seeing your counselor since things are great with your wife, or get a new one. There is no need to create havoc agian.
GET A NEW COUNSERLOR NOW! if ur going 2 a counserlor now, ur marrage mite be on the rocks.(just assuming)u shood get a new counserlor, that way u can still save ur marriage. its not to late!
The right thing to do is get another marriage counselor. Are you sure your not confusing her flirting with you with her actually doing her job. If your in counseling obviously there is a problem in your marriage you might feel like she filling the void right now but what about later on? Remember you went into marriage counseling to get help not to mess things up more. But my final advice to you is go with your heart, honestly only you know what you really want, just listen to yourself.
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