I would advise that he take the kids and leave her. Her bi-polar disorder, left untreated, is very dangerous, and I'm not sure she would even be able to get the fight together to argue the case. Also, he can get in touch with the Department of Family Services and get his side documented.Advice for my brother in bad marriage?
You know? I have all-ready said it before divorce is not the ultimate solution for such situations. he may consider to make transformation with his life, I know it sounds hard however not necessarily. It really sounds as if he might be the right man to so since he really sounds like a great guy. You need to remember that situations like that exists between two people and they both share the responsibility to where they are. Now as for the bipolarity? you did nit mention how hard it is now days it is not hard to be treated as long as it is treated. I am sure that there is a way to bring her to get treatment. It is absolutely necessary.
If he decide to go along with divorce he shouldn't give up his kids as it seems he stand a fair chance of winning custody.
I hope i was a bit help-full send my best wishes to your brother
All the best
I'd tell him to stop trying to please her, enjoy his time with his kids, get involved in his own interests, and sleep with other women.
Either that or arrange a family move to a country where the divorce laws favour fathers.
Well, just because they would divorce doesn't mean that she would automatically get the kids. Her bipolar disorder is definitly something they would look at and that she's not on meds would affect the decision.
he could speak to a lawyer and demonstrate and try to prove that she is an unft mother. but he wold have to prove she is bipolar and will not get treatment.
it is not worth staying in a bad marriage.
three kids stick it out child support will destroy him unless he fights for 50/50 custody
he should stop doing everything and getting out with friends more
Since she is bipolar and refuses treatment I would think he would get the kids because she would not be a fit parent.
Maybe he could take the kids. He should talk with a competent lawyer that has worked with custodial fathers before.
He just needs to stick it out for 3 or 4 more years than he can leave the lazy lady.
tell him to speak with a lawyer ... he may be able to get custody of the children ... an attorney will know .
one they wouldnt let her have the kids if she wont take meds. i would tell him to get some help not only for him but his wife. iknow it can be hard. i would have him get in a good church and talk to some well blanced men. why dont u sometimes take the kids so he can have a break since his wife wont. try to help him so he can help his wife. he might be able to get her to take her meds but it would only be for the kids. if she is hurtful to her self or the kids then yes he does need to do something about it. how old are the kids if there are teens they know what is going on. and they would be able to pick which one they would want to live with. i would tell him stay stonge dont give up when times get tuff u get tuff. if he is a christian he needs to be praying about this. if not then i will. just to help. it wont hurt is what i say. i am learning alot about the way we live is all about how we look at life. i have had alot going on lately but i am done with it god said in the bible that we have victory already we just have to rejoice when the times are bad and they will past. tell him too look up Psalm 55:18 it says he hath delivered my soul in peace from the battle that was against me: for there were many with me. tell him to hang in there and find a good church i will pray for him if u dont mind. thank u for asking this question. many people dont know what to do. i am glad to help. good luck and u too hang in there and help him out i am sure u are.
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