I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?

I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...I know it sounds crazy, but kissing is very special to me. I'm worried about my first kissing being in front of a crowd of people at my wedding. I'm worried the kiss will be awkward since it will be my first kiss. It'd be embarrassing even if it wasn't awkward, just since kissing will not be comfortable yet. Should I save the kiss for after the wedding? But then everyone will ask me why, and my family doesn't know about the kissing thing. If we do kiss at the wedding, should I announce that it's our first kiss? I would like to announce it since I'm proud of it, but I'm afraid I'd be super embarrassed if people knew it was the first kiss and worried people would think I was bragging or making it seem like I was better than anyone else. Does anyone have any advice? By the way, kissing before the wedding is not an option since saving the kiss is very important to me.I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?
You are living in a Fantasy Land, Kiddo...no guy is gonna go along with that..better grow up or you're gonna be alone for a long, long time.......I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?
i call poo. either poo or troll.
Your crazy get it over and done with and have sex while your at it it will only stress you out more on your wedding day if you don't.
OMFG! Are you crazy. I'm sorry but that is so stupid. You should first of all find a guy to marry, second of all you won't marry anyone since every guy will think that you are crazy, and third of all you need to kiss your '; future husband'; to see if there are any sparks. Cause the kiss tells you if you are good for eachother. I think you should think about this more deeply.
Although this is a very sweet idea, in theory, I truly think you guys should kiss before hand. Seriously. Your guy is a rare one that wants to marry you, but has waited this long for a kiss. Is this real, or, some kind of school project?
Well, I know it's your decision to have your first kiss after you are married, but my advice would be to kiss him before that way it wont be weird doing it for the first time in front of people... the first kiss is always awkward enough w/out having lots of people staring at you while you're doing it.
i think you shouldn't. you can't really have a realtion ship nowadays without kissing
All I have to say: You go girl! I didn't get my first kiss til I was 19, and well, let's just say I have not had a single good one so it is definitely something I wish I had not done and instead save it until when (or if, since it's unlikely) I get married. I wouldn't do it in there, I would do it afterwards. I would wait until after the reception is over and y'all are alone before doing that.
I think what you're doing is AWESOME! Saving that for your husband is just great! I wouldn't announce it to your wedding guests, but just keep it between you and your husband. That's something you guys will know and share for the rest of your lifes. And fyi to the above person, you CAN have a relationship without kissing, just like you can have a relationship without sex. Kissing and having sex isn't the best part of a relationship, and if you don't know that then you haven't been in a fulfilling relationship.
How can kissing to be special to you if you've never done it before?
Wow...I can dig it, but wow!





Hmm...well...I wouldn't announce it. Even if you are proud of it, I still wouldn't make a big to do about it. Some brides wait to have sex until they're married but they don't announce it after they've done it LOL. ';I'M NOT A VIRGIN ANYMORE!!'; Haha...





I'd kiss at the wedding but keep it a simple quick peck on the lips. The first time french kissing is a little weird. When I had my first kiss, I was 13 and had no idea what he had just done to me! He came towards me and I closed my eyes cuz thats what they do in the movies...then bam! Cold slimey thing in my mouth!





Good luck, its hard finding a guy now a days that will stick around without sex...I imagine it'll be even harder finding one that will be okay with no kissing too. %26lt;3
How old are you?
never mind all the rude comments from immature ppl i think its sweet and this day in age we need more like you also might i add traditionally couples didnt kiss or any thing until after the vows hence ';you may now kiss your bride'; some even say that a kiss is more spiritual than sex because its then that your souls connect
That's very sweet, but it does come naturally, so don't fear being a novice. I shared my first kiss with my fiance', but not in the way you're planning. Instead of announcing it's your first kiss to everyone, why not tell those who matter most to you? They'll know what a special moment it is.
Really till marriage. Have you ever heard the expression don't buy a car till you look under the hood. What if your fiance is horrible at kissing what if your first kiss does nothing there is no spark just nothing it's like kissing your brother. Than you have spent all this money and are married to some one that there is no spark with. I would kissing him now before you say I do
Are you 12? No seriously? That is beyond ridiculous and good luck finding any guy to agree to that. If people knew that was your first kiss they would feel bad for you not think you were better than they were. That is just sad and pathetic.
Don't say anything. Just your close friends and family can know. They'll spread the word, and it will be super cute :)
Why so much negativity about this? It isn't immature, and if someone truly loves you for you, they will wait. A committed relationship isn't about sex or kissing or being physical in any way. Sorry if it sounds cheesy, but a lasting relationship is built on a bond that transcends the physical. It is emotional and spiritual.








As for the kiss:


You don't have to announce it or make it a big deal, but you could have the officiant say something about how you've waited for that special person and it will be your first kiss as a couple. I've heard of them doing it when the bride or groom or both have saved their virginity for marriage, so why not honor the first kiss?





And yes, it does come naturally, but because you're going to be nervous you may get caught up in thinking too much about it. Just don't pucker your lips too much and be tense. Relax, and cherish the moment.
what are you serious?
Rent a couple of romantic comedies and practice on stuffed animals :)
I know of 5 of my friends off the top of my head that waited until their wedding day.


I think it is so awesome.


They saved their kiss for the person they


will spend the rest of their lifes with.


NOONE has that piece of you.


Id say announce it.


Who cares if it sounds proud


not alot of people have the will


power to save that kiss.


And it wont be awkward.


It comes natural!


Believe me.


by the end of the


day you will be a pro! :)


Dont let anyone tell you its weird.


Be proud. Thats so awesome.


But FOR SURE kiss on that alter.


Your sealing the deal!!
No kissing = no marriage.