Monday, December 28, 2009

Can anyone answer some marriage questions for me? I need some advice for school and would appreciate it alot!?

1. Name (Optional; First or last)


2. How long have you been married?


3. Any children?


4. What do you think has made your marriage successful?


5. What have you had to work at most in your marriage?


6. What was the most suprising thing you discovered about being married?


7. What could you have done to be better prepared for marriage?


8. What is one thing you did right when you were dating?


9. What is one thing you would have done differently when you were dating?


10. How did you cone to know that this was the person you should marry?


11. What do you think someone should look for in a prospective mate?


12. What advice would you give a young person today about dating and marriage?Can anyone answer some marriage questions for me? I need some advice for school and would appreciate it alot!?
1. Nalo


2. 8 yrs


3. Yes...5 monsters lol


4. We were friends for a long time before we started dating


5. Communication


6. Nothing really


7. Nothing..life changes and you have to make decisions and act accordingly


8. We talked alot..she is my best friend


9. Not have dated so many other people first lol


10. Well we are best friends, we were living together, we have children...marriage was just the next step


11. Your best friend...when everything else about your relationship falls apart (lust,money etc) it驶s nice to know you can honestly talk to the person that is going through it with you


12. Date alot..find someone you can be friends with. Cause when all else fails it驶s nice to know you can just hang out and talkCan anyone answer some marriage questions for me? I need some advice for school and would appreciate it alot!?
1. Jay


2. 7 yrs


3. 2


4. communication


5. communication


6. its hard work


7. listened better


8. not sure, would have to ask her


9. i dont think i would have done anything different, if it were not for the mistakes made in the past and learned from them we would not be where we are today, which is happy


10. she was my best friend for years first


11. it varies on what the person wants


12. TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!
1. Delilah


2. 1 year


3. 1 girl


4. Communication


5. Adjusting to another family member


6. The arguing! We hardly argued while dating! lol


7. Absolutely nothing


8. Told him exactly how I felt


9. I wish I never cheated.


10. I didn't want to be with anyone else...still don't


11. common interests, attraction, good communication


12. Never give up, if you can't make something work in 6 months then you never will.
1. Magic 8 Ball


2. 11 years


3. a 5 year old son


4. trust, placing each others happiness before our own, desire to work at marriage


5. expectations of each other


6. When it sucks, it's still pretty cool


7. been married before?


8. Dated a LONG time (5 years)


9. nothing


10. Met him and thought ';mine';


11. Compatibility, similar life goals


12. Choose carefully and you;ll only need to choose once.
1. Christina


2. 6 years


3. 4 kids


4. honesty, communication and trust


5. fighting fair


6. my mom wasn't lying its a lot of work


7. nothing


8. talked. made sure we really knew each other.


9. waited to have sex


10. just knew


11. respect and love


12. life is what happens while ur busy making other plans. dont go looking for your soul mate. they will come along and you'll know when it happens
Shavon


6 years


1


humor


learning how to pick our battles


it is alot like dating


nothing I feel pretty prepared


made sure it was right before we married


nothing


it just clicked and I knew


loyalty


enjoy life but don't rush into marriage.
1. Shannon


2. 13 years


3. 3 children


4. Hard work-never giving up on each other, good communication


5. learning how to communicate well with each other


6. That is was such hard work!


7.Better career training...better planning on having children


8. Went with my gut--didn't marry for money or status, but for love.


9. Maybe given my future husband a little more space


10. Gut instinct.


11. Loyalty, respect, love,sexual attraction, aside from that someone with a car, an apartment or house, and a job!


12. Take your time. There is no rush. Love will find you when you least expect it!





If you'd like to learn more about marriage I've started a website (still somewhat under construction) at http://www.marriagepeace.com.
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