I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?

I know it sounds crazy, but I'm set on saving my first kiss for marriage. I'm 21, not 13, and I have really thought through this. It's not impossible to find a guy who'll wait--I'm currently in a serious relationship that has lasted three years. I know I do not need to kiss a guy before I can decide if he's the right guy to marry. Anyway, my question is this: I'm worried that if I kiss at the wedding it'll be awkward and embarrassing. If I do kiss at the wedding, I don't know if I should announce that it's our first kiss because I am proud of it and want people to know, but it could make people think that I'm trying to say I'm better than everyone else. So: Do you think I should kiss at the wedding or save the kiss for later in private? If we do kiss at the wedding, should we announce it? Kissing before the wedding is not an option.I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?
Kiss at the wedding but don't say anything about it being your first kiss. Some things are best treasured between just the couple. Plus by doing so it will be caught forever in pictures and on video for you two to enjoy.I'm saving my first kiss for marriage...advice please?
What in the world made you decide to do this? Kissing is a wonderful way of showing love and affection. When you have children will you have a time line to hug and kiss them?
wow
If you love the guy, of course you have to kiss him. That's part of falling in love. Not kissing someone is absolutely nuts.
I've heard of waiting for sex until marriage, but never kissing. Are you waiting for sex as well? How do you guys show affection to one another? I could never do that, but if that's what you want then go ahead. You can kiss at the wedding, but who says you have to announce to everyone that that was your first kiss? Why even announce it? It's no ones business. Just kiss at the wedding and be happy ^_^
Blimey, I suppose a shag's right out of the question!
wow. ur guy must be either AMAZING or rly bored.
i think thats a bit too far, id save sex for marriage but saving your kiss??
wow, i'm a virgin...this even sounds insane to me.


it is one thing to wait for sex, but a kiss? someone could bump into you and take that away, girl get serious.
Kiss at the wedding - I wouldn't announce it because that's what would make it awkward. It would probably help to talk to him about it first so you're both on the same page. It doesn't have to be a long drawn out french kiss or anything - keep it short and simple. You can save the exploring for later. When they say you may kiss the bride I don't think anyone expects a make out session.
i think you should kiss at the wedding. i like the tradition of sharing your first kiss as man and wife with your friends and family. it is a personal choice though.





don't worry about it being awkward. my cousin and his wife had an awkward kiss because they bumped noses. it was the most adorable kiss i had ever seen. if you want to avoid that the two of you shoudl chose a direction to lean.





i wouldn't announce it. those who know you two well will know it is the first kiss.
There will never BE a wedding if you won't kiss him.
I say save it. it is pure and it will be specialer to him. but tell your friends so you get applouse for waiting.
just because your wedding kiss will be your first, doesn't mean you have to announce it to everyone. you can always talk about this later, but if you're afraid of what people might think, then wait to tell everyone.
i think you should kiss after the wedding...


i admire you for waiting its really hard....


but its your choice..


if you do kiss at the wedding dont announce it....


well good luck!!!!!
Good for you , I resect that . I know it will be worth waiting for . Don't let anyone change your mind ..
that is a wise disigen
well jessica.. i am impress with you .. and him. to .. dont say a thing as its your private info.. but i wish you lot of kisses all the best to both of you..
The kiss at the wedding is considered more a symbolic one.


But it's up to you to decide if you should do the kiss there or not. It's about how you feel, if you are ready to do it, lol
You've been in a relationship for three years and you haven't kissed yet? That's not sacred, it's borderline unhealthy.
I am glad to hear some one else who is waiting to kiss. I am intending on kissing at my wedding for the first time as a public declaration of love for my wife. don't know if that's what you want to do but that's what I am doing
wow thats crazy ive never heard of that...good for you I personally wouldnt be able to do it. Kiss at the wedding...and announce it....not because your better than anyone else but your excited and proud and its special! Its your day...
Hi





If you have been in that relationship for three yrs and not kissed some thing is definitely wrong. How do you say good nite,just maybe hug and say good nite. Life is not that short. Good luck and KISS.


Bye


Toe xo
kiss him in private...it is more romantic. and it wil be more memorable.
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