Marriage advice for wife?

I have been married for about three months, and we have been together for almost 3yrs. My husband and I have sex less than 4x a month. I recently had a baby however I have been quick to get back in shape, I will admit I no longer spend as much time in putting on makeup and doing my hair, but I still try to look good for him daily.


My problem with him is that he does not seem interested in sex with me, He watches porn daily. I have a problem with that, b/c why get it from somewhere else when I am here willingly? ... I have my needs as well and I feel very rejected.


I no longer even want to have sex because it happens so rarely for us anyways.





I have tried everything! sexy lingerie.. but nothing seems to work. He is satisfied w/ just watching porn. This is causing a major rift in our relationship and I don't think he even knows it.





any advice? I have tried talking to him but I don't think he understands but it embarreses me because I can't get my husband to have sex with me.





HELP.Marriage advice for wife?
To find out how much trouble your marriage is in... go over and turn the porn off. Tell him he has got to stop the porn watching for awhile. See how he reacts. You could go out with friends and leave the baby with him. Then his attention will have to be on your child.Marriage advice for wife?
Go get sexy lingerie and plan a sexy night. Let him know how much better REAL sex is than porn. Do not take it personally...talk to him. I know it's embarrassing but you need to be open about it.
Try talking to him again. Don't be subtle spell it out for him. Tell him that your lack of a sex life makes you feel unwanted and unattractive. Ask him what you can do to get him more interested.
Well as sad as it is. Men like varity. They truely get bored with the same thing over and over again. I am not saying that to be rude I am just saying..men, loose interest once they have tackled the project.