What advice can I give my friend who is dating a man that left her after 21+ years for a arranged marriage?

Her ex boyfriend is from Africa and has been leaving in the US. He recently left my friend after 21+ years for a arranged marriage. The one thing thats bothering me, is my friend and him are still ';TOGETHER'; like nothing ever happend. They were boyfriend/girlfriend about to get married. Then he dropped and told her he's getting married to a woman from Africa. His new wife lives here in the Statres also. He still tells her he loves her. They still go out. They are both acting like nothing has ever happend. He is a married man and as a friend I'm sick over this. Any advice I can give my friend? She doesn't deserve this!What advice can I give my friend who is dating a man that left her after 21+ years for a arranged marriage?
Wow. That is horrible. Any man who would even think of doing that to me would be shot - by me.





However, your friend is a grown-up and is fully aware of the situation. She consented to the terms of their relationship and there's not much you can do about it. If one day she chooses to end it, just be there for her. Till then, she has a right to choose what she believes makes her happy.


.What advice can I give my friend who is dating a man that left her after 21+ years for a arranged marriage?
i am sorry you are worried but in truth to be a real friend you can do nothing but be their when it all gets too ugly for her.sometimes to be a true friend is to say nothing until you are asked for your opinion and when that day comes and it will simply ask why doesn't he respect you
it sounds like a marriage of convenience .... nothing more





if everyone is happy


I would just stay out of it
maybe the man doesnt want the other woman and is just with her because of force. i understand how hard this could be though
It sounds like it's basically a marriage for show, especially seeing as it's arranged. If everyone's happy with the situation, why change it? Although, if the wife doesn't know, I can't say I'd be terribly impressed...
If she is OK with it, don't interfere...!!!
why should you worry if they are happy with it ......
Nobody who has dated a dinosaur has ever been dumped.