Best advice for me? I'm getting married in January. Secrets to happiness in marriage you've found?

Be a good listener, always be honest, and be respectful. If you are upset about something talk about it, stick to the subject, once this issue is resolved, then let it go. Try to let little things go. Have fun with one another, be playful, loving, do things together that you are both interested in. Remember a kind word and a smile or hug can do wonders for the soul. Don't go to bed upset with one another. Remember that you only live once, have fun and enjoy one another... ~Best advice for me? I'm getting married in January. Secrets to happiness in marriage you've found?
Hubby and i have been married almost 2 years and we have yet to battle and we have 2 children and the military to deal with.. You need to just be able to communicate about every thing and i mean every thing and also u both need to be able to handle jokes from each other and also remember to laugh.. Also remember just because he leaves the toilet seat up isnt a reason to fight hahaha!!Best advice for me? I'm getting married in January. Secrets to happiness in marriage you've found?
I don't think there are any big secrets.





I'd consider talking about the future, finances, how you will live, children and any other life concerns BEFORE you get married.





Communication is one key to a good marriage. Might as well start now.





Keep the drama out of the marriage. If there is an issue, discuss it.. if you can't agree, compromise, or agree to disagree...





Treat each other as you'd wish to be treated yourself!





and take care. i wish you many happy years.
Understand your vows and live them every day.


Love:


Love has many different definitions, and we all love in different ways. However, think about some of these terms, and see how they fit your relationship.


* Adore


* Respect


* Admire


* Show affection


* Show devotion


* Find irresistible


* Unselfishness


* Loyalty


* Care


* Passion


* Tenderness





Honor


Do we really honor each other? To some extent, most couples do, but how much more could we honor our spouses if we really think about what this term means?


* Respect


* Admiration


* Integrity


* Deference


* To treat honorably


* To fulfill terms of an agreement (vows)





Cherish


To cherish someone is to love and honor them as much if not more than you love yourself. It is the most meaningful of the terms, in my opinion. People can love each other, or care for each other, without cherishing one another. If we truly cherish each other, how can we have anything but happy and lasting marriages?


* To keep first in one's mind


* To treasure another


* To value deeply


* To hold dear


* To prize above all else


* To treat with gentleness and tender care


* To esteem


* To appreciate


* To treat with utmost importance
1. Accept the differences between the both of you.


2. Don't take marriage for granted.


3. Love is an action verb. requires doing on both halves.


4. Once in awhile, do the things that attracted you two together in the first place.


5. Always remember WHY you are getting married for a lifetime.


6. Take your marriage one day at a time. Enjoy each moment.
Never stop having sex.


When you need/want something ask.


Say Please and Thank You -Alot


Put your spouse as number one in your life and treat them accordingly.


Never Cheat.


Pick you battles. Win with grace and lose with dignity.


Never say something you don't mean that you can't take back.


Learn to say I'm sorry when your wrong and mean it. Pride goeth before the fall. (this one is very important)


Realize it's the hardest thing you'll ever do and the most rewarding.
You 2 should always be each other best friend.


Communication.


Honesty.


Never go to bed mad at each other.


Share your dreams together.


Support each other.


Nobody is perfect.


Each day is a precious moment-good or bad..enjoy each other,
COMMUNICATION!
Don't go to sleep upset with eachother. I am really subborn and still need my husband's help. It's a must, though.
choose your battles- I'm still having trouble with this one.