We've been together for almost two years, he's talking marriage, Im freaking out. Advice?

We are really happy together, have lived together for almost two years, and truly in love (I believe) but he is 14 years older than me and has lived loads more than I have. Im afraid that if I say yes now and we get married then I will feel like I've missed out on some part of living. I know he will support my decision and stick by me but I hate the thought of him being hurt by my decision. What would you do?We've been together for almost two years, he's talking marriage, Im freaking out. Advice?
Don't be afraid. Marriage can be a beautiful thing. It all


depends on how the two people work it. I've met alot of women who were like you and when they got married they were


even more happy. If he has been the same for the two years you've been together and has always respected you then you have nothing to worry. If you listen to all the negative


words people say then you will be afraid. Turn your negative


into a positive. It's when you have kids is when you miss out on alot in life. You're stuck home changing, feeding,


rocking, and crying. Marriage is beautiful when the right


people are in it. And when there is lots of love and fun.We've been together for almost two years, he's talking marriage, Im freaking out. Advice?
I'd be by myself or find someone my own age and leave the old experienced man alone.
TELL HIM YOU NEED A WHILE TO THINK ABOUT IT. LET HIM KNOW WHY YOUR SCARED ADN IF HE LOVES U HE WILL UNDERSTAND..PLUS U LOVE HIM RIGHT? BE HONEST HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY ..DONT MARRY HIM IF UR NOT READY IT WILL ONLY HURT THE BOTH OF U IF U REALIZE LATER ITS NOT WAHT U WANT...
Run away.
what's stopping u fr marrying him if ur saying ur both truly inluv??? u shldnt doubt ur feelings..





if he's older than u then that's a gud thing.. he'll b patient w/u %26amp; assist u coping up w/d marriage..





if u still feel ur not ready then tell him.. it'll hurt him but he'll understand if he really loves u.
Make sure you clearly tell him this. Yes, it will probably hurt him, but that is inevitable. You two don't share the same brain, and people in relationships always have different perspectives. Don't get too worked up about hurting him, it sucks but it is a part of life. If he is willing to stick with you, that is cool, but you might just be in different places in your life. Get married when YOU want to, don't let anyone else pressure you in. You have every right and responsibility to live YOUR life the way YOU want to.
You dont find too many men out there who can ask for marriage. The world is full of boys playing games with women, and waiting for women to ask them out. Today's boys are wanting thier mommies/girlfriends to ask them for the hand in marriage.





Men ask for marriage. Boys wait on women to do it for them.
He seems to think that you are the one. He seems to think that since you have been together for two years maybe you think so too. DO YOU? NO REALLY, look deep inside you. Missing out on what a greater love? Are you willing to have babies with this man? OK then
Seems like the first thing you think of when the word Marriage is mentioned is Trapped (at this point in your life). This is a red flag. If you cant see yourself growing and experiencing life with this man and rather feel like you are missing out on life then you need to take your time with this relationship. He may or may not be the one. Time will tell. Don't rush into marriage unless it gives you a rush! (Marriage should be exciting, not terrifying.)
can u see your self with him in the future? i have a friend who got married to a younger girl and she left him for the reason that she hadnt 'lived enough'. well, she hurt him badly most probably because she didnt think the marriage through properly. im now with him and im 15 yrs younger and id marry him in a heart beat because hes everything ive ever wanted. If u think u could then do it, but if ur having so many doubts then maybe you have a good reason to. think it through carefully. good luck
Marriage is the finest way to be happy.
think about what would happen if you decided to say no if things are positive say yes if negative say no
You've lived together for 2 years and you say you are truly in love with him--I doubt it! Neither of you are committed to the other. On the farm we used to say, ';why milk the cow if you can get the milk free';? Why are you living together without the benefit of marriage. Are you waiting for something to happen that will cause you to separate and you can without legal problems? Marriage and loving another person is a very strong committment. And it means that you will help each other out through all life's problems and work toward a single goal and finally reach the last days of this life together and be happy! Sounds like you do not want to commit--are you afraid he is not the right man to marry. Marriage is a life long committment. Find what you are afraid of and talk it out with him and stop living with him until you can determine whether or not he is the one, then either marry him or find another man. No more living with a guy outside the bonds of marriage!