You are not unhappy in your marriage, you sound unhappy with your life. See a doctor and get help for depression.Help! I need advice. I am unhappy in my marriage, and I have been feeling this way for quite some ..?
sometimes you don't always make the right decision, but sometimes you have to make the decision right. you have a child together. there was something there in the beginning otherwise you would have never gotten together in the first place. maybe try counseling to get back to where you used to be at one time. its a least worth a try for your baby. if it doesn't work, at least you made an effort.
People tend to overuse the word ';confused';. You're not confused, you're very clearly frustrated, unhappy and stressed. You can try a conversation with him leading to marriage therapy and try to get your marriage back on a mutually satisfying track, or you can leave. This is up to you.
First talk to him if you can. If you honestly feel strongly about leaving then you and your child should go. Think of your child first, is he a decent step dad? alot of women feel they have all the burdens of any marital relationship. I suggest to you to look up Dr. Laura, she can be quite crude, but very correct with relationships,give har a try before giving up. good luck,
Seven Year Itch. You need a break. Take some time for yourself AWAY and see if you still feel this way. Everybody is having financial problems right now, and this can have a MAJOR effect on your relationship.
If you still feel this way, then yes you should divorce him.
When you get fed up the confusion will go away and you'll regret wasting so much time being miserable. Hmm, I would think having a child would make me want to be strong enough to show him how to be happy!
Life is short, leave while you can still start over.
Leave him. You and your kids will thank you later. Don't waste your time anymore.
Maybe he what's you to leave to but he's not saying it,if you leave first he will not have any guilt....
Have you tried... you know... TALKING to him?
live for your kid and try to improve things
Hunny I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way.
But to be honest with you made a vow for better or for worse and right now you are in the worse part of it.
Have you tried talking with him about your feelings? It sounds like your husband walks all over you when it comes to responsibilities of doing house work. but for someone to walk over you, you have to lay down and become a door mat!
So get back up on your feet give him a list of responsibilites and tell him that you work full time you are too tired to do them all and then stop doing what you asked him to do. Make him do his own laundry and if he doesn't well then he can have durty clothes
Try going and seeing a counselor. Take a wkend or a week long trip just the two of you do something romantic. Change your everyday life. Find why you fell in love..
Don't just decide to leave your husband, the father of your child cause you're unhappy..
Work on it.. fix it.. the ball is in your court what are you doing to do!!!
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