People who are or have waited for sex till marriage, how far do you go? When do you stop? Advice please!!!!?

Although, both of us are not virgins, my boyfriend and me are waiting till marriage to have sex. And we have now been going out for almost a year. I want to know how far is right to go sexually. What are your experiences? How do you fight off temptations? when or where is the best time to stop so ?People who are or have waited for sex till marriage, how far do you go? When do you stop? Advice please!!!!?
It's hard to find nowadays, that someone actually waits until they're married. My new wife and I (3 months now) dated for 5 years (we're high school sweethearts) and waited to have sex until we got married. It was just a personal choice, neither of us are religious. That said, we did pretty much everything one can do with their hands, but didn't do oral sex. The first night was a little weird because of the new experience, since we were both virgins, but I can honestly say I wouldn't change it even having now experienced sex.





Since we waited so long, and instead of having sex pretty much practiced foreplay for 5 years, we have some seriously amazing, generous sex now. I think we've gone 7-8 times in the last 5 days or so, and she orgasms several times each, thanks to all the foreplay practice. It really gives you a chance to get to know everything about your partner in a more erotic way than just thrusting in and out.





To summarize - my recommendation: hands and fingers can be used from head to toe, but mouths should only be for kissing.





Thanks!People who are or have waited for sex till marriage, how far do you go? When do you stop? Advice please!!!!?
It all depends on you, what do you think is right or not. Me and my husband did not do any thing, not even a kiss before marriage. I don't know about temtations becaouse he was the ist guy in my life and I was quite naive sexually. So don't know. But It all depends on you. What ever you think is okay and good, go for it, its a personal choice.
I was a virgin till i got married but my husband wasn't but i waited! Sure i was tempted alot but i had alot of self control. He gave me oral and sex on top of clothes but thats as far as we went. When you think you can't control yourself no more then stop.
Bollocks to Cute-Pie. ';What ever you feel is right is right.'; RUBBISH. Now, on to your question. My wife and I were both virgins when we married, but let me tell you. If sex was the main course, we had every appetizer the menu offered.


Just remember this: Virtue is often lack of opportunity.


Don't get yourselves into the position where sex is possible, and you will have a beautiful wedding night. Otherwise, you'll survive, but I imagine it just wouldn't be the same. Everyone I've spoken to on this topic tells me that they wished they'd waited.